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Should Vibrators be sold on Prescription Only In Kenya?

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Not until recently did I know that vibrators can be easily acquired in the street of Nairobi. I thought it was just fascination by people in town, who say that Sex toys are the ‘new arrival’. I still can ‘t believe if men toys can make any good business in Kenya but am tempted to think that vibrators are possibly making good business. I am also surprised to see how Kenyans have become sexually liberated from our stringent African cultural practices with toys retailing for as low as 500 bob in online stores in Kenya. There are a few sites that are doing this business and offering to deliver the toys within CBD.

 This begs the question, are people interested in buying them?  Obviously there is no market that can be successful without sustainable demand and supply. If there is supply there is certainly someone willing and ready to buy. Many Kenyans would love to remain silent on this kind of topic preferring to discuss it in the confines of their bedrooms. I would like to examine the truth about the history of vibrators, legal and ethical debates about the use and sale of vibrators round the world.  

 For What Purpose were Vibrators initially made?
Vibrator was a medical invention that was intended to manage or treat
hysteria in women. Although this has been known as the history of where vibrators came from, they have since been designed, adopted and marketed as sex toys for women. Although, women who use such toys in African communities like Kenya are condemned and somewhat stigmatized, this is changing by the day.  
Whether a woman uses a toy or not is no longer the focus of many men who are dating, meaning men have gradually accepted it as a norm. Although not all men will agree to the use of these toys, there are considerable brand of men who have least concern about them. It is notable that vibrators are severely condemned in African context when they are related to acts of lesbians but seemingly accepted in the context of heterosexuality.  They are gradually being accepted as the norm.  You may want to learn more about the history of Vibrators from this Post.

Legality of Sale and Use of Vibrators round the World
Considering these facts there are a number of legal and ethic questions that are raised on whether the use of this toys should be accepted as legal. To cite some example there are countries that do not allow the sale of these toys. There are laws that prohibit the use and sale of these toys in such countries. A good example is India. Although such a law exists they are easily accessible via online stores. Other notable places that they have been banned in the past are South America. In Alabama the legality of sale and use of these toys is enshrined in the Anti- Obscenity Enforcement Act that was drafted in 1998. Although such laws exist it’s hard to prosecute anyone who has such a device since this would grossly infringe on their right to privacy. 

 It is notable that Alabama is the only state that the law prohibits sale of Sex toys and resident have to obtain a prescription for buying sex toys! Isn’t this ridiculous? Although the laws purport and label these devices as ‘Obscene devices ‘One American bioethicist argues that they are meant for the ‘social good’ He further describes them a substitute for marital inadequacies! It is arguable that they play an important role in the emotional health of millions of women world over! Do you agree with this argument?

  In Kenya I have not heard of a legistration that bans their use or sale, I neither don’t think we should have such a law!

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History of Women Sex Toys: How the First Vibrator was Made

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 Innovative Medical Technology


It’s amazing how innovative technology can develop to be used for diverse purposes. One such medical invention that is today used by millions of women round the world is the vibrator. It was in the early 18th century that doctors devised a device for treating female hysteria by manipulative pelvic massage. This device was initially made for medical purpose and the first one was a steam powered devices. 

The inventor was an American Physician called George Taylor and he named it manipulator. Initially meant for helping doctors with strained wrists’ get relief, it was further developed by Joseph Granville and patented as an electromechanical vibrator.

·         Vibrator Becomes Personal


It was not until 1902 that the device was available for retail when an American company made and
patented an eclectic one making it amongst the first domestic appliances to be electrified. Some of the appliances electrified in this age include; Kettle, Toaster, Vacuum Cleaners and sewing machines. 

In 1920 the device was not seen in the mainstream until 1960 when Jon Tavel patented the cordless version making them personal devices. It is reported that they have been advancement in changes as pertain to design, model and speed since the initial designs.

Read a Detailed History from Wikipedia 

DO YOU KNOW: You Might Be Infected with Chlamydia and Have No IDEA!

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If you have not heard about Chlamydia infection before, this post will enlighten you on all that you need to know about Chlamydia infection and help you deal with it. You might want to read this post carefully since you might be infected with Chlamydia and living with it unknowingly! Shocking as it sounds; Chlamydia is one of the common sexually transmitted diseases that might go unnoticed and easily transmitted to sexual partners.

It is possible to get this infection from an infected woman since there is a high chance of about 75% infection from women while men its barely 50%. You might probably be noticing unusual discomforts and slight pain in your groin recently, if you have had such an experience it might be important you know more about Chlamydia infection in men and seek treatment immediately! 

What is Chlamydia and what are the Signs of Infection in Men?
Chlamydia is a bacterial infection thatis not easily noticed in
infected partners.  You may be infected and living with it for some weeks without noticing anything abnormal. About 3 weeks of infection you may see
·         Small but cloudy discharge from penis
·         Pain when passing urine
·         Some burning sensation at the tip of the penis (kuwashwawashwa )
·         Pain and swelling of the testicles
If you have seen these signs there is reason to suspect you might be infected with Chlamydia.  
In women you might observe the following signs :
·         Discharge that is abnormal in color and smell
·         Pain and fever
·         Painful coitus
·         Painful urination
·         Bleeding between periods
·         Thrush (burning sensation )

Treatment

Diagnosis

If you have such signs you should visit the doctor, he will swab the urethra for a sample, culture it or microscopic examination for the presence of the bacteria.

Treatment

 If diagnosed you are treated with oral antibiotics and the doctor might recommend your partner to get treated too!

How long will recovery last

It will take about 7 to 14 days but you should finish the dose of oral antibiotics given for the treatment to be effective. You are not supposed to engage in sexual activities while under treatment.

Retesting

You may be required to retest after treatment to ascertain that you are cured of Chlamydia. 

What is the Worst that Can Happen?

If women are not treated it might degenerate to pelvic inflammatory disease that leads to infertility since the female reproduction organs are adversely affected by the infection.

In men it consequently progresses to infection of epididymis and inflammation of rectum something that will definitely affect your fertility.

Prevention of Chlamydia infection
·         Use of Protection while having sex
·         Only have one sexual partner
·         Abstinence from sexual activities
·         Seeking treatment immediately you notice this signs.

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Why Men would rather marry a ‘Whore’ than Conservative Girl

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Nothing confuses a man than the choice of a mate who will be his life time partner, the mother of his kids and his first lady. While this confusion reigns, majority of men getting married are torn between making choices on the best partner out of the girls they have been dating. This is not strange since many men will have at least two girls to compare in their final moment before they can decide on where they will settle. In this case there are a number of factors that come to play when men are selecting spouses. 
 
One of the most important factor than men look for is the ability of the woman they are marrying to satisfy them sexually. Many men can never compromise on this one explaining why many men pressurize their partner by persistence advances to ensure they are making the right decision on mate selection.  Nothing can be as deceitful as a man who marries a woman who cannot satisfy his sexual drive. In most cases this man may end up cheating. So this brings up, this question; ‘Should you marry a ‘whore’ or the conservative girl?

·         Marrying a Girl from Ocha (Muchatha)
One of my friends argues that the best way to get married and live happily thereafter, is to get a girl from your village, bring her to
Nairobi, teach her a few things like operating a microwave, keep her happy by taking her out (Uhuru park will do the trick) for once a month and when she get her first baby, let her forget outings to concentrate on raising your kids.
For some reason I think this approach is serious escapism, and poses a danger than she can change either way. Generally, men fear that the sexual life would deteriorate within a short time when they marry this kind of a girl. It is also thought if she decides to out of your wedlock, she will do it crazily since she did not do it at the early time! Whether this is true or false remains a subject of debate

·         Marrying a ‘Whore’
If you are marrying a ‘whore’ this is a tall order and you will either have to be lucky to get a good one or very unlucky with one who will frisk you from endless and useless outings, bash, shoes, …the list is endless. Despite all these shortcomings most men will bet that their sexual life will be better since this kind of a girl will have a very good sexual appetite and will deliver great satisfaction. It is arguable that this kind of girl adopts the attitude ‘been there done that ‘and will rarely want to cheat on you since they have seen it ALL!

Whether you choose to marry a girl from Muchatha or a ‘whore’ you should remain in control of the relationship else you will be very frustrated. By having a clear agreement on the role of every one in your relationship you will safeguard your relationship and help increase the rare chances of marriage survival in the world today.

Biblical Fact: When Israel sinned against God in the reign of Jeroboam, Hosea was called to be a prophet and he was called by God to marry an unfaithful woman (whore) Hosea 1 Vs 1- 20

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When No strings Attached is the Only Option

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Nothing beats a man hands down, than a futile chase of a mate who will neither give in, to his yielding demands nor show him total rejection. Its better a girl you are falling rejects you from the beginning than keeping you there dangling with your emotions, while she has absolutely no intent of dating you. In the recent past there are several people who are crying foul when faced with such a situation. Most girls have mastered the art of playing hard to get but some go over board and will drive men crazy who are looking for serious relationships. Have you seen young men going out of their way to impress their purported GFs, only to get a series of disappointments? This can be summarized by an old axiom ‘Nothing hurts, than loving someone who will not love you back’If you have been in such a situation I have a solution for you. This solution is based on an attitude that has been seen to work miracles for those who dare nurture it.

Men are disadvantaged in this dating game, since women call the shot, when it comes to choice of their mate. This is a natural fact and you cannot fight nature but adopt! There are a number of things that you can do, to up your game, reduce your rejection rate and improve your dating esteem immensely. These are the few important things that will help you get
along with a partner who is very elusive and eventually make them fall for you. I will discuss each of these facts in different posts and you may find them useful if your relationship is compromised at the moment.

One such dating strategies that you can use is adopting the mentality ‘No strings Attached ‘ This is a lethal weapon that will make you become a powerful socialite, a daring of women and the most sought after mate.  You should not confuse this with promiscuity as I will explain. Basically the ‘No strings attached ‘mentality helps you dissociates your emotions with your relationships. For some reasons women do not like feeble men who have ready emotions to dish out. You got emit some aura of serious masculinity for you to be admirable!

 Unless you have seen you’re your new relationship has a good chance of survival, you should adopt don’t care mentality and never try to show emotions initially. If you do, you may gradually lose your guard and become a serious victim of her ‘Hard to get game’ haven’t you heard someone you are crazily falling for telling you, that you would rather be friends. This is the same thing here, you should not try to justify that should be more than friends, let the status quo remain as you wait for opportune time for her to accept you.

If you are starting a relationship and want it to be successful some slight dose of ‘hardcoreness ‘makes you admirable. You should always be keen not to make use of words that elicit emotional response at the beginning of the relationship. If you are truly going to win someone who is playing too hard to get but interested in you, adopting this mentality helps you safeguard your emotional health that can suffer when faced a brutal rejection. By adopting this kind of nonchalant mentality, you will not fear getting rejected and you will be a winner in the long run. The more you are able to overcome FEAR OF REJECTION the better you will become at meeting new people and dating without getting disappointed.

Good Luck

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Why Women Love Bend Over !

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Nearly every human behavior has a psychological or if you like a scientific reason if not an explanation. The burden of proof in some researches only lies on the future research on given subject. In this case, the common scientific explanation or suggestion about a sexual behavior is taken to be the Gospel truth until proven wrong by further research.  Before you start calling me names I would like to point out that most of these sexual behaviors have been studied and researched on other animals. 

With enough proof in other species such scientific evidence becomes a worthy piece of research for being tried and tested to see if it also applies across other species Homo sapiens included. This post will focus on showing relation that has been observed and documented on female sexual behavior commonly called ‘ Bend over' in species, why it occurs, what it means and when female species ‘Bend Over’ …if true this could be very interesting scientific phenomenon...............

Bend Over In Kenya/ Nairobi Social Culture
In the social culture of Kenya the dance moves commonly depicting bend over as a style of dancing are very common in Nairobi Culture. This could also be a possibility of the female to impress potential males in their presence. As you will find out from the science facts; female in all species are very selective when it come to their mates.  By understanding more of these facts you will tell the difference ……

Bend Over Scientific Explanation
Sexual Behavior scientists have commonly observed in varied species a behavior called mammalian Lordosis. In the medical terminology Lordosis has a meaning of arching of the back. In sexual behaviors Lordosis has been observed and documented in Female Mammals and particular seen in cats, human and mice. 

What is Lordosis?
Lordosis means the behavior shown by female when on estrus characterized by assuming a mating position. Wikipediadescribed further that Lordosis occurs as a behavior before mating and females curve their spine and raise the backside.

When Does Lordosis Occur?
This is influenced by the increasing level of estrogen hormone during the heat period. If you read further you will see there are lots of impulses from the brain that tend to influence this behavior. This behavior is well described as attractive copulatory behavior. This contributes to the advancement of the species since it is a great way for female to initiate the mating process.
In Anthropological Context
One of the leading anthropologists Helen Fisher suggests that women wearing high heels are in somewhat a presumptive kind of Lordosis. The fact that high heels tend to elevate the buttocks has been cited as the reason for this theory.

Whether this scientific arguments are true or not; one thing that is obvious about ‘bend over’ it is sexually suggestive behavior. So next time you are dancing with this stranger in a club, you could be helping someone fulfill their natural ‘subconscious’ motive. What is your experience with this? Share your experience on the comments below. 

11 Obvious Reasons Women REJECT you at FIRST SIGHT

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Kenyan women are highly intelligent when it comes to spotting a man who wants to fake what he is not. The Number #1 dating Advice is ‘Always be yourself ….don’t try to fake your personality’. If you are having a first date anytime soon you should be aware that you will never get a second chance to make a first impression. The first impression is what matters, for you to earn a second date. I have watched the hyped up dating program tujuane and decided to write a few tips to help some guys out there style up. 

The ideas shared in this article are suggestion that will help you get to know how women think about you when you are on a date. It’s important you begin by learning the 10 reasons why women may constantly be rejecting you and you may not be aware. These are the most common mistakes men commit and they cost them a second date.

              #1 Bad Breath on a First Date - Bad breath is the most uncomfortable feeling your date will have to endure all the time you open your mouth. There are men who suffer from bad breath and they may not be aware. If you would like to know if you have bad breath this post: How to identify and eliminate bad breathmay be a MUST READ. Bad breath is the most obvious reason that will get you rejected on your first date. 


# 2 Looking too Cheap
Kenyan women can never forgive you for looking cheap. You need to at least command some aura of class without overstating or overdoing it. You will not be forgiven for showing up on a first date dressed poorly. Just get yourself some decent looking clothes either some smart casual or official wear. You don’t have to strain to buy expensive clothes to impress your first date. You just need to be smart and clean.

#3 Shunning away from Drinks and Food
If you are on a date and pretend you don’t want to eat or drink anything, this is a perfect turn off. Most guys who don’t eat on their first date don’t get a second date. You communicate that you are either broke i.e can’t afford to pay for both meals or you are just not yourself.

# 4 Showing up with Friends
You have probably heard this phrase time and again that ‘two is company, three is crowd’ No woman want to be subjected to scrutiny on their first date. The fact that you come along with a friend implies you are either not confident or you want to seek your friend’s opinion. This is warming up to an automatic rejection.

# 5 Your Looks and Physique 
Obviously all women out there have a figment of imagination of the kind of a man they are looking for. Should you fall short in one of her requirements you should be able to compensate with another. Looks is a relative word, you may not look like the Hollywood stars but may optimize your looks to make you irresistible to any woman you meet. Read 10 Habits that will improve your Looks andSexual Appeal.

#6 You are too Touchy
No matter how confident you get, you may want to limit the number of indecent contacts that you make with your date. You should even strive to avoid body contact for the first date as a way of appearing chivalry. Most women will use this to measure your ability to cheat on them when you are in company of other women. Try to limit the touches or sexually suggestive touches whether you are comfortable with each other or not, at least for the first date.  

#7 You are Cocky in Speech
If you got to win women hearts you got to understand their code language, being cocky sounds interesting but on a first date it may border being offensive. You should take time to learn your date first before you can start talking in a cocky way.

# 8 You are Not Interesting
No matter how hard it is for you to become interesting, you should always have some ideas in mind how you can start a conversation especially when it dies off. Get some interesting ideas about the place you are on your first date. Women rate ‘ Being Interesting ‘ as one of the most desirable qualities in a man.

#9 Bad Body Odor
This could probably have come second to bad breath since women will not forgive you for emitting bad body odors. You may want to try some colognes, deodorants and soaps that eliminate bad body odor. If it is persistent you should consider talking to a health care provider. Women will identify you by the way you smell. If you want success in dating you got to smell like successful people do.


# 10 You Talk about your Problems
Every one of us has his or her personal problems; the last place you may want to expose your inadequacies is on a first date.  Inexperienced men will talk about their family, health and financial problems on their first date thereby scaring the woman away.

#11 You Can’t Pay for the Bills
It’s said that there is no romance without finance. If you want the former you got to look for the latter. An average date Nairobi will require you to have some cash for taxi, food, drinks and emergencies. Don’t be fooled women will never forgive you for lacking financially. Just be ready to pay the bills and enjoy your date. There is no shortcut here especially for a first date….its PAY AS YOU GO J



How to Identify and Eliminate Bad Breath

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Bad breath is one of the reasons why you will not be getting a second date. Most people cannot stand bad breath especially in romantic relationships. I have from time to time researched on the best ways that you can use to quickly identify bad breath and eliminate so that you can have a perfect romantic relationship. This post will focus on this steps that you can use to identify and eliminate bad breath.

Causes of Bad Breath
It’s important we begin by highlighting some of the possible causes of bad breath since you can control the bad breath by controlling the causes. The following are the most common causes of bad breath;
·         Food or Diet- Foods with strong odors and spices are thought to be a leading cause of bad breath
·         Smoking – Its one of the most obvious cause of bad breath
·         Alcohol – Increase alcoholic consumption is obviously a leading cause of bad breath
·         Gum Diseases- Gum disease will manifest as bad breath
·         Tooth Decay- the tooth that is decaying emits bad odors and therefore causes bad breath

How can you know you Have Bad Breath?
There are many ways you can use to identify if you have bad breath obviously you will not ask your date if you have bad breath. You can ask an honest friend if you have bad breath or you can do the following test.
·         Lick your inner part of the forearm
·         Allow it to dry for a few minutes
·         Smell the dried part you licked
·         If it has a bad odor, you have bad breath.

Ways to Eliminate Bad Breath
·         Consider stopping habits that predispose you to bad breath like smoking and eating foods with bad odor
·         Regularly brush your teeth and rinse them with the mouth wash for bad breath
·         Make use you clean your tongue with the brush when you are brushing your teeth to eliminate the food particles that are in your tongue.
·         If the problem is persistent seek a dentist help, you could be suffering from a dental disease
·         Regularly chew some anti bad breathe gums to just get rid of the bad breath. This is just a temporally measure.


     Get Rid of Bad Breath and Have a Wonderful Dating and Kissing Experience.

    10 Manly Habits to Improve your Looks and Sexual Appeal

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    There are many ways that you can adapt to constantly improve the way you look and ultimately make you the object of desire of many women out there. It’s hard to talk about attracting good looking girls and not talk about the way you should nurture a plan to improve your looks. In this dating game, there is a perception that goes round minds of many people of this gorgeous partner who always lives in the realms of fantasy. 

    If you stop fantasizing for a moment, you will realize that in this dating game you will attract your match PERIOD! You got to up your game if you will ever get a good date. As a man, when it comes to physique and looks you have some layaway to change women’s’ perception on you but you have to pay a price of dedication, strategy and consistent hard work. This tips highlighted in this post will just help you get started but you should look for more ways you can achieve the near perfect body you dream about.

            Identify your ‘Prey’ first!
    Before you think about your looks you should begin by constantly analyzing the kind of a woman you want to attract. If you have watched the lions hunt, the first instinct is to choose a prey and keep the eyes on the prize. You should know if this woman prefers a well toned body or muscular
    built body. There is no pint of just running to lift weight and build a body that will not be of use to any of your dating escapades. 

    Most guys make this mistake, you don’t have to lift 200 pounds to be a macho guy, and you just need strategy. Make it a habit to always know the kind of a woman you want to attract and what she is looking for in a man. Enough said about his first habit of identifying your mate first let’s move the next 9 habits of successful men.

    Physical Appeal
     #1 Don’t Go to the Gym without a Plan
    There is a strange misconception out there that women are looking for Mr Muscle Man, whilst women get excited with greatly built guys not all women will date this kind of a man you should not go to the gym to just lift weights, have a strategy to achieve a well toned body.
    # 2 Run or Jog Regularly
    Jogging or running not only improves your general cardiac health but also serves the important role of making your body improve since you lose substantial amount of fats that give you a bad sexual appeal.
    # 3 Regular Home Exercises
    Make it a habit to always do some pushups, press ups and rollers everyday in the morning or in the evening when you are at home. Never Skip a day and always strive to be better in these exercises.

    Financial Appeal
    You should know that financial appeal is almost equitable to sexual appeal. When you have good flow of cash, you will ooze with confidence and women will somewhat find you sexy, ask Donald Trump
    #4 Increase your Earning Ability
    You can increase your earning ability by seeking more business, getting a promotion or even getting better education.
    #5 Invest your Money Right
    When you have good investment that yields profits or dividends all year round, you will be a daring for many women you meet. This improves your sexual appeal and confidence in relationships.
    # 6 Buy Assets
    You should always aspire to increase your net worth. This will make you have good relationships and if you like, security that women are looking for in a long term relationship. These assets can be a long term plan for investment into your future family; this will make you appear as a visionary and futuristic man.

    Lifestyle
    You should have a good way of making the women in your life entertained and happy. Women desire happiness and pleasure from their men, this is another way to make you have high appeal amongst women.
    # 7 Dress Properly
    This point cannot be overemphasized, you need to learn how to properly dress for occasions, dates and other places you encounter beautiful girls. This will be a defining moment in your life.
    # 8 Get Some Wheels
    If you have some money and want to invest in uping your game, you got to have some good chrome. Kenyan women tend to rate men according to what they drive. If you have a nice ride, it might go a long way towards scoring you highly on the sexual appeal.
    #9 Dating Manners
    You got to hone your overall dating manners, right from the way you call women, the way you talk to women and the way you treat women in public. There is no other way to show what your character than the way you treat other women, whether they matter or not in your life.

      Personality 

    # 10 BE CONFIDENT
    Ask all women what they are looking for in a man and 10 out of 10 women will mention confidence. Confidence is the most important character that you should nurture for you to improve your sexual appeal by 100% 

    Interesting Scientific and Historical Facts about Human Sex with Animals

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    In the last two weeks Kenya social scene has been abuzz with amusement at the discovery of three girls having sex with dogs in Mombasa. While this is unheard of in Kenyan culture, there are many ways we may look at this issue without limiting our thinking to only social consequences. I want to give this bizarre incidence a scientific opinion to help us know more about sexual disorders. The best way to learn about sexual disorders is examining history and some well known scientific facts. In this post I will highlight some interesting facts about Zoophilia and the possible causes. 

    Whether we can relate psychiatric disorder (paraphilia) to the incidence in Mombasa or not, there is serious mental problems that go unaddressed in our country, we need to appreciate that this girls may not only been under financial undue influence but as a matter of fact, they could possibly be suffering from
    this mental disorder.

    What is Zoophlia?

    Zoophilia is the unnatural act that involves humans having sex with animals this is considered as one of the most crime in many countries. It is outlawed in many countries and people found are prosecuted and viewed as social outcasts. The following are facts about Zoophilia;

    10 Facts about Zoophilia
    1. Zoophilia is commonly called bestiality or Zoosexuality
    2. Zoophiles is the name used to described people who have sex with animals equivalent to pedophiles
    3. Zoophilia is a paraphilia a mental disorder observed in humans as erotic arousal or sexual attraction towards animals
    4. Zoosadism is term used to described mental disorder of deriving pleasure by infliction of pain on animals
    5. According to statistics (Kinsey Report) at least 8% of men and 3.6 % of women have sex with animals in their lifetime.
    6. This is very common amongst people who live in farms or interact with animals
    7. There are publications that purport Zoophilia to be common fantasies amongst women than men.
    8. In some ancient history some brothels would stage mating animals as a way of arousing their clientele
    9. Latent Zoophilia is a suppressed urge to have sex with animals
    10. Currently no medical treatment is available for zoophilia like all the other kinds of paraphilia

    The following are the classes of Zoophilia;
    1. Human-animal role-players
    2. Romantic zoophiles
    3. Zoophilic fantasizers  
    4. Fetishistic zoophiles
    5. Sadistic bestials                      
    6. Regular zoophiles
    7. Exclusive zoophiles
    8. Tactile zoophiles
    9. Opportunistic zoophiles

    Health Concerns
    There may be serious health consequences the most common being allergic reaction to animal semen and transmission of the following diseases;
    1. Brucellosis
    2. Q fever
    3. Leptospirosis
    4. Toxocariasis

    You can read more from Wikipedia


    8 Genuine or Fake EXCUSES She does NOT Pick your Calls !

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    Dating can be one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences in your life. While dating should be a mutual engagement, most cases men find themselves giving too much case with little or no catch. If you ever come to such a point, you should consider auditing your action vis-à-vis your partner reactions to just be certain if your relationship is headed somewhere. Dating Nairobi women can be an uphill task especially when you don’t have a clear cut strategy on what you are looking for in a woman. Whether you meet in a club, dating site or in the streets, it does not matter all women respond the same way when it comes to one thing, picking your calls.

     In this era of women empowerment where you find one woman is dating several men, you should be smart if you want to pick out these petty lies. You don’t have to invest in a lie detectors or spouse spy software just be smart. You may read the top 6 reasons she won’t pick your calls as a way of getting started with this problem, honestly you could be the problem!

    Many men are worried when they have partners or girl friends that will not pick their calls or even text back. While it obvious that she might not be interested in you, it is not always the case. Learn from these tips on how to analyze your situation and determine whether you are begin taken for a RIDE!
    When she is not picking your calls she may have some of the following reasons
    that can either be genuine or fake let’s begin with the 5 genuine reasons:

    # 1) I was in a Class or Meeting
    This is one of the most common reasons that are given by girls for not picking your calls. If you trust your instincts, you should give her the benefit of doubt and try to find out on your own about her schedule
    # 2) My Phone was on Vibration Mode or Silent (I didn’t hear your calls)
    This is a 50:50 reason it can either be true or false, but in most cases there is a reasonable timeframe you can use to see if she is cheating. If she does not pick the calls on regular bases and don’t call back to apologize only to say her phone was off, there is a RED flag.
    #3) My Phone was in the Hand Bag
    My phone was in the hand bag is somewhat a genuine reason considering Kenyan women carry reasonably huge hand bags that are ‘self contained’  J
    # 4) I was in a Noisy Matatu
    This reason can only be valid when the lady is courteous enough to call you back and let you know about that. She can also be always on a matatu J Dude that’s a red flag!!
                 # 5)  I was Sick
    Most ladies who suffer severe mood swings may genuinely not pick your calls during such a time. Unless you know about her sickness, it might be very hard to determine whether this is true or false. In most cases if she is always sick and not picking calls, you don’t need a sick girl friend.
               #6) I was with My Mum or Dad
    If this is true, you are the problem not her, you should try to make her grow up or try not to date such a lady who is always tied to her mother purse strings.
               #7 I was with My Friends
    This simply means BOYFRIEND…there is absolutely no reason why a lady who is proud of you cannot pick calls when she is with her friend.
              #8 My Phone is Spoilt
    Try calling when you are with her, if its only spoilt when she is away from you ….she is a LOVE SCAMBUG!
    These are few reasons but there are funnier ones that will make you burst out in laughter. All the same whenever you are in such a situation TRUST YOUR Instincts they RARELY lie! 

    6 Hurtful Reasons She Won’t Pick your Calls

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    Considering you have been dating or trying to date a certain girl but she keeps refusing to pick your calls, its time you went back to the drawing board and did some evaluation. This post will expose to you some of the most common or known reasons that girls detest from picking some ‘guys’ calls. This post should just be an eye opener and should guide you on either to exit the relationship you are currently in or to turn things around.

    Girls will not pick calls for the following reasons:


    #1 Testing your Patience
    Although this can be nerve wrecking if she calls you back and apologizes and does not do this all the time, you may consider giving her the benefit of doubt. If she just does not pick your calls and never calls you back, it may be as good as to forget her!

    # 2 She Does not Like you and Will NEVER
    There are certain women who will never garner enough courage to face you and tell you that you are and will never be anything special in this life. This is a red pill and you should take it as it is and don’t create grudges just move on and forget her too. There is possibly someone who will be eager to pick your calls if not call you before you even call them. This love and dating game is a bug circus without winners, we all somewhat LOSE!

    # 3 She is Not Ready for a Relationship

    Some women are perfect at ignoring men by not picking their calls since they are nether interested in them or a relationship. This can be a lukewarm situation, you may choose to stay or go but the consequences of hanging on may be far more disastrous than accepting the truth that she just SUCKS! Move on don’t waste your valuable time ‘ukichezea guiter Mbuzi’

    # 4) She is a Player

    This is very common in the recent times where a girl can have one guy in one estate and the other in the other side of town. It’s called spreading the risks, you may be the unlucky one who is not pampered, take heart and leave coz they say DON’T hate the player HATE the GAME!

    #5) She is Heart Broken and Living in Previous Relationship Bliss
    If you are dating a new girl who broken up with her partners in a period of less than 6 months this is the most likely cause of your troubles. She may either slip back to her ex or you can try and convince her otherwise. This one I call it SLIPPERY! or it bears a disclaimer ‘ Guys be Aware’ !


    #6 She has another GUY you are the Spare Wheel!
    As hard as it is to believe that some guys would settle for the second position in a woman’s life, it’s happening. Whether you call it urogi, kuchanganyikiwa or true love, this kind of woman will always not pick your calls if you are the second guy. Just aspire to be the ONLY man or quit!

    6 Best Places to Meet Good Women in Nairobi for Dating

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    If you are wondering where you can meet a good date in Nairobi, you may want to read these tips of the best places to meet Women in Nairobi for dating. Before you review these places, you probably missed out on the most read post in the previous week ‘ Obvious reasons why you get rejected on the first date’ You may want to begin by reading this post for you to be confident as you make your next move towards meeting a woman of your dreams in Nairobi.
    The following are the best places to meet women in Nairobi for dating:


    #1) Outdoor Event
    No doubt outdoor events make one of the best places you will meet good girls. The events may range from charity walks, marathons, motor sports and much more. The best way to get to know when these events are coming up is to read in newspapers and blogs updates. You should keep abreast with the upcoming events, the venue, charges and the possible people who will attend these events for you to make a decision on whether this is an ideal place to meet the woman of your dreams.

    # 2) School or College
    School is obviously the most common of all places that people met their spouses. School or college provides a great meeting place for people and offers you the limitless possibility of meeting someone you would probably have not met anywhere else. In college you can meet good women in libraries, class and during school activities like sports, events and so on.

    # 3) Work Place
    Although not so many people want to date their colleagues at work, if you don’t mind, you may find it interesting to date a good girl at your work place. Work place is not limited to your company but may extend to the environs such as the same building, the same work area and so on. Don’t limit yourself when it comes to dating women within your work vicinity.

    # 4 Seminars and Conferences
    Seminars and conferences present you with a great opportunity to meet women of high caliber and class who aspire to grow their career. When you attend regular off work seminars, be on the lookout, you may meet your dream girl in that conference.

    # 5 Church
    Obviously all the good girls attend church one time or another. Church remains to be one of the leading places that you are more likely to meet a good woman in Kenya. This does not mean that all the girls who attend church services are the best but there is a high propensity of meeting a good girl in church than any other place.

    # 6 Weddings
    If you shun attending weddings, you may be missing out on great opportunities to meet a woman of your dreams. Weddings in Kenya provide a thriving ground of romance and meeting good women. Next time you think of getting a good girl, you may contemplate attending weddings that you are invited.


    Good Luck 

    'Men Don’t Grow OLD' A Granny in Naivasha is Divorcing his Wife on Grounds of Conjugal Rights Denial

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    NAIVASHA, KENYA: A 68-year-old man from Kinagop, Nyandarua County wants to divorce his 60 year old wife for denying him his conjugal rights.

    After 38 years in marriage, the granny wants to call it quits insisting that his rights have been violated.

         Its been 10 Years
    The granny claims that for the last ten years, he has never gotten intimate with his wife and cannot take it anymore and wants to start his life afresh.

    Despite his advanced stage, the man says that he is strong and can still perform at any level and challenged the doubting-Thomas for a ‘match’.

    His wife admits that she refused having sex with her hubby after he
    started coming up with queer and ungodly styles which always left her body aching.
       
    Joel Kimani , a witness at a wazee baraza called to settle the marital dispute said  the man recounted how his wife had even shifted from their matrimonial bed ten years ago.

    Kimani said that the granny had even identified a potential wife and referred to a single mother of five in the village who was better known for moving around with widowers.

    What She Had to Say

    It was then that the wazees decided to invite the woman to defend herself and tell what was going on in their marriage.

    To their shock, the woman admitted that they were no longer intimate with her husband due to his queer demands.

    She told how the husband after frequent night-overs in the nearby Naivasha town could come back with new styles.

    Alianza tabia mbaya, kuniambia nikae hivi, pinduku huku, inama hivi na ikafika mahali nikaona kama ataniua huku akisema ni mastylo mpya,” meaning he started asking be to try different styles and I was afraid I will get hurt,  said the woman leaving the elders in stitches.
    The man interjected and tried to attack the woman in public accusing her of having an affair with another man.

    The two had to be separated as emotions ran high with the man vowing to proceed and remarry while the woman 
    stood her grounds that she was not ready for new styles.



    Andrew, Audrey Mbugua’s Transgender Case

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    Nairobi, Kenya: A landmark case before the High Court could have far reaching implications on how persons of transgender are treated.
    It involves a woman, born 29 years ago as Andrew Mbugua Ithibu, but who chose to change her gender.  Unable to win Government recognition of her new status as a woman, Audrey Mbugua Ithibu has now taken the battle to court.
    She accuses the national examinations body of preventing her from being employed by refusing to change her academic certificates to reflect her current gender status.
    Audrey’s case seeking orders to compel the
    Kenya National Examination Council (Knec) to change her names in the examination certificate is unprecedented in Kenyan courts.
    Audrey says she was born male and diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder seven years after completing High School and scoring a grade of A-minus.
    Born in January 1984, she studied at Kiambu High School where she sat her secondary school national examination under the name Andrew Mbugua Ithibu. After completing High School in 2001, Andrew decided she wanted to be a female and chose the name Audrey.
    “I was born male 29 years ago and I started my medical transition to be of the female sex a couple of years ago to replace Andrew, “she says in an article.
    Deed poll
    She changed her first name legally from Andrew to Audrey last year through a deed poll and gazette notice. She was treated at Mathare mental hospital and subsequently issued with a psychiatrist medical report stating that she had been diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorders/Transsexualism in 2008.
    Currently, a project officer at a transgender lobby, Audrey says she has attempted to undergo surgery to become a woman but the medical authorities have complicated matters for her.

    Her efforts to seek help from the Commission on Administrative Justice (CAJ), requesting the Government agency to intervene for her to access her gender reassignment surgery 
    Read More from Source
    By PAMELA CHEPKEMEI


    Article of the Week: The Great Deception That Is Romantic ‘Love’

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    I came across this interesting article and would like to share it here with my readers, I hope you find it interesting and join this debate : 





    Whenever any of my buddies tells me he’s fallen in ‘love’, I always burst out laughing and take a deep gulp of my Tusker.

    Romantic love is nothing more than western creation meant to fuel consumerism, individualism and otherwise deludes people into thinking that a person can love the other unconditionally.

    If pure love exists, why doesn’t Njeri the CEO of XYZ ltd fall in love and MARRY Kamau, the mkokoteni dude?

    Love is simply a way of
    trapping two people to ensure they reproduce and sustain the human species.

    If you want to get married, stop this bullshit about falling in love; just get a person you can cope with, agree to stay together, get children, rear them and then wait to die. This nonsense about MR right and Mrs Right is just delusions planted by western media to colonize the rest of the world.

    In the past, parents used to get wives for their sons and they would live harmoniously.
    How can someone say: each person has his/her special angel somewhere?

    If you live in Nairobi, most likely you will marry a Nairobian. Similarly if you were in Lagos, you would get a husband/wife there. There is no special person for every person. It depends on where you are staying. Otherwise you have 1 million special someone depending on where you live and your station in life.

    The soulmate banter is irritating nonsense. No one can be the solemate of another person.
    The so hyped companionship in marriage is gimcrackery; no husband has ever been 60% honest with his wife, leave alone 100% honesty. The most honest wife is only about 30% honest with her husband.

    If you are a dude and you want to marry, just get a natural girl out there, get her pregnant rear kids, continue watching soccer, enjoy your tusker, educate the kids…….i tell you there is nothing else in life.


    Forget the rubbish about candle lit dinners and flowers……..its buffoonery imported by the white man.

    In the News : SHOCKING Hong Kong MAN Discovered He is a WOMAN after Doctor's Visit

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    HONG KONG  A 66-year-old who lived his whole life as a man was given a surprising diagnosis after visiting the doctor in Hong Kong with a swollen abdomen -- he was a woman.      
    Doctors realised the patient was female after they found the swelling came from a large cyst on an ovary, the Hong Kong Medical Journal reported.
    The condition was the result of two rare genetic disorders.                                       
    The subject had Turner syndrome, which affects  girls and women and results from a problem with the chromosomes, with characteristics including infertility and short stature. But he also had congenital adrenal hyperplasia, increasing male hormones and making the patient, who had a beard and a "micropenis", appear like a man.
    "Were it not due to the huge ovarian cyst, his intriguing medical condition might never have been exposed," seven doctors from two of the city's hospitals wrote in the study published Monday.
    The 1.37 meters (4.5 feet) tall patient, who grew up as an orphan, was found to have no testes, a history of urinary leakage since childhood, and stopped growing after puberty at the age of 10.
    The doctors said there have been only six cases where both genetic disorders have been reported in medical literature. Turner Syndrome on its own affects only one in 2,500 to 3,000 females.
    The Vietnam-born Chinese patient decided to continue "perceiving himself as having a male gender with the possible need of testosterone replacement," according to the journal.
    Most men have a X and a Y chromosome and most women have a pair of X chromosomes. But people with Turner Syndrome tend to have only one X chromosome or are missing part of their second X chromosome.

    Kitoto's Advice this Week : I am a MISERABLE DESPERATE wife !

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    Dear Kitoto,
    I am a 40 and married for 15 years, but I am sad and frustrated. I got married to a businessman who had another family and many other children born out of wedlock. I am a civil    servant.
    Immediately after we got married, he left all the responsibilities to me. He brought all his illegitimate children to my house, which was very burdensome. Whenever I complained, he would beat me up.
    His first wife would travel and leave her children with me. I did everything for the children, including visiting them in school. This became too much and I developed ulcers. Every time I asked him for money he would remind me that I also earned a salary.
    He is so adulterous. He sleeps around with different women. This has affected his business and he is now jobless.
    I became so stressed at some stage that I suffered depression and a mild stroke. My doctor advised me to take a transfer and leave him. I did so, but he followed me to my new station. He started chasing after every woman he could sight and was once beaten up in town for pursuing somebody’s wife.
    He has refused to look for a job. He is comfortable staying at home and bringing women to my bed when I am at work. When I ask him to go out and look for employment, he says I am being unfair to him, and that he is looking for a place to go to. My worry is that he does not want to assist me to look after the children, and he expects me to take care of him without complaint.
    To make myself a little happy, I started seeing another man. He is caring and loving to me.
    My husband really mistreated me when he had money. Now he wants to force me to stay with him and take care of him. Right now, my children are at home because of lack of school fees, which he expects me to raise. What do I do? Please help me before I do something crazy.

    Read the whole story here 

    Michael Douglas admits his THROAT CANCER was caused by ORAL SEX not SMOKING!

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    Michael Douglas has opened up about his past diagnosis, revealing that oral sex, not smoking or drinking, caused his type of throat cancer.
    In a candid new interview with U.K.'s The Guardian, Douglas admits that his illness was caused by the human papillomavirus (HPV).
    "Without wanting to get too specific, this particular cancer is caused by HPV, which actually comes about from cunnilingus," the "Behind the Candelabra" star, 68, explains.
    Douglas, who fought a six-month battle with the disease from August 2010 until January 2011, also confesses that he thought that his battle with cancer would be a fatal one. He says at first he assumed the stress from his son Cameron's legal troubles played
    a big factor in his sickness.
    "I did worry if the stress caused by my son's incarceration didn't help trigger it. But yeah, it's a sexually transmitted disease that causes cancer," Douglas, who is married to Catherine Zeta-Jones, notes. "And if you have it, cunnilingus is also the best cure for it."
    The actor has been cancer-free for more than two years and says he has check-ups every six months. "And with this kind of cancer, 95% of the time it doesn't come back," he adds. Still, Douglas will never forget what it felt like to hear that word.
    "I will always remember the look on his face," Douglas previously said of his doctor, who revealed that he had stage four throat cancer. "He said: 'We need a biopsy.' There was a walnut-size tumor at the base of my tongue that no other doctor had seen."
    According to the Oral Cancer Foundation, one tract of HPV -- known as HPV16 -- is known to be linked to oral cancer, manifesting itself in the back regions of the throat and mouth. Douglas admits he suffered through toothaches and other oral infections for nine months before discovering his diagnosis
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